Sunday, May 24, 2009

Memorial Day Weekend

Memorial Day, originally called Decoration Day, is a day of remembrance for those who have died in our nation's service.

Memorial Day was officially proclaimed on 5 May 1868 by General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, in his General Order No. 11, and was first observed on 30 May 1868, when flowers were placed on the graves of Union and Confederate soldiers at Arlington National Cemetery. The first state to officially recognize the holiday was New York in 1873. By 1890 it was recognized by all of the northern states. The South refused to acknowledge the day, honoring their dead on separate days until after World War I (when the holiday changed from honoring just those who died fighting in the Civil War to honoring Americans who died fighting in any war). It is now celebrated in almost every State on the last Monday in May (passed by Congress with the National Holiday Act of 1971 (P.L. 90 - 363).

Please take a moment to look at the pictures of the grave markers below. These pictures were taken at the National Cemetery of the Pacific, aka “Punch Bowl”, on 23 May 2009. Try to remember, during this long holiday weekend, that we are supposed to pause and reflect in memory of those who laid down their lives so we can live free, practice the faith of our choice, associate with whom we wish and otherwise enjoy all the blessing of this great country.

The purpose of the holiday were are preparing to observe is to honor a promise, that those who made the ultimate sacrifice will never be forgotten, regardless of where they fought and died. We who have benefited from their sacrifice should always remember that they gave up their tomorrows, so that we could have our today’s. Take a moment, reflect in silence, attend an event honoring their memory, but fulfill that promise that they are not forgotten. Remember them on this most special day and live each of your days happy and secure that there are men and women across this great country who will continue to sacrifice so we may all benefit and live free.












Thursday, May 7, 2009

Eating out

It has become a tradition that Robert, our friend and Keith's co-worker, would take us out to dinner sometime after Keith's return from deployment. As a retired marine and a DOD police officer, he has a lot to talk about with Keith. I am glad they include me in the conversation and humor me by answering my ignorant questions.

Well, Keith has been home a while from his deployment in Afghanistan; but with surgery and what not minor delays, we were finally able to get together last week. As usual, we went to Hy's restaurant. The steak there is to die for.
Before the dinner, we walked around Waikiki and acted like tourists.

At Hy's: Keith, myself, Davaa and Robert. Davaa is one of our friends from Mongolia - who is a trapeze artist. I am glad she was able to join us and enjoy the evening of delicious meal and hopefully some good company. :-)

We ended up sitting at exact table we sat the last time. No matter where we sit, the food and the service are always great.

Thank you, Robert. I am sure there will be more deployments! You might have to just send us a gift card though... :-)

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Surgery

Finally I am catching up with my blogging. With all the trips and the hospital visits, I have been otherwise occupied.

Soon after we got back from LA, Keith went in for his surgery - disk replacement.

The surgery was on Friday and lasted about 5 hours - longest 5 hours I got to wait. Keith says it went quick since he was asleep. It was a long day from the beginning though. We got there at 0530 hours and after checking in and all, to get IV in him, there were 6 nurses working and he got stuck 11 times. They wanted him to relax so the vein would be easier to locate; however, just looking at them, I wasn't even able to relax. Easier said than done. Finally one of them got one and he went off to his surgery in a funny green hat. :-) I didn't have my camera, otherwise I would have snapped a pic and posted it too -- for humor in serious situation.

The surgeon came out and informed me to the success of the operation - and I believe that is when I think I started breathing again.

The surgeons cut in from the front (about 10 centimeter incision), moved the abdominal cavity out of the way, take out the collapsed old disk and replaced it with a titanium one with a swivel in the middle.

He was fine for about 2 hours after he came out of surgery. Then he started gagging on the tube in his nose and then, the reaction to morphine. After calling the nurses and doctors few dozen times and getting into some intense words with one or two and a very late but much needed visit and a blessing from the bishop, he calmed down and finally fell asleep from sheer exhaustion.

Then, surprisingly, he was able to get up and walk around a bit on Saturday. Slowly but surely he is getting better. It is a major surgery but surprisingly he is already up and walking aronud. The only time it is noticeable is when he goes in and out of bed and sits down or stands up. He is home now, we walked around Geiger park for about 30 minutes today and he even cooked tonight. What can I say. He likes it. :-)

Thanks to all of you for your prayers, kind thoughts, visits, and phone calls.

Trip to California and Arizona

The day after our anniversary trip, we made another to California to visit Keith's family we haven't seen for a while - actually some of whom I have never met. Since we went to California, we, of course, managed to make some time for us and made a trip to Arizona to visit some sites and visit with the Cantwells.

So, here are some pictures from our trip.

With my in-laws at Lake Arrowhead.

Lake Arrowhead

Keith's sister Michelle with her daughter Emily

Chris (Michelle's husband) with Ella and Emily

Ella and I. She is just about 2 months old.

Ella sleeping. What a mohawk.

Emily and I.

Keith with cousin Patty and her husband Craig.

We went to Twenty Nine Palms, CA to visit and meet with some other relatives. I have never met any of them before and Keith had met just a few.

Aunt Sis, her husband John and us. Sis and John both served in the U. S. Marines. So, Keith and them had a lot to talk about.

Keith with his cousins: Patty, David and Kathy.
Family picture

Since we were in Twenty Nine Palms, we made a trip to Joshua Tree National Park.

My husband - the king of the hill... :-)

Some interesting rock formations we got to climb

Me being domestic - a rare site

Interesting looking plants with thorns and what not too...

In Arizona - Scottsdale Arizona National Cemetery

Finally got to see one of these big cactus with huge thorns - even got poked by one. Ouch.

Who knew - the thorns have flowers - beautiful ones too

Keith - in the kitchen wherever we go - he made breakfast for me and the Cantwells a couple of times.

Lee and Karen Cantwell and me

Line to enter the Grand Canyon

Evidently I wasn't the first person to climb on top of the sign...

We did hike down some ways - didn't make it all the way to the bottom - but considering the time and resources we had (water and snacks) - we did have a very nice exercise and saw some interesting parts of the Grand Canyon.

As any tourist oriented places, people were willing to take your pictures and we enjoyed taking other couples pictures as well. Nice to have a proof we were there together. :-)
Needless to say the place was GRAND!!!
After our visit to Grand Canyon, we had a long drive to San Diego - a little detour to our way back to LA. It is a beautiful drive - just makes us wonder how big the USA is. We got onto Interstate 8 - and was stopped twice by the border patrol - very impressive to see the border checkpoints and also to see the wall along the border - we were just a few hundred yards from the border at times.
San Diego National Cemetery

City of San Diego beyond Coronado island

Keith with his friend Will Molina - they served together in Keith's second OIF tour (Iraq) in 2005-06. We visited with him and his family.

Connor and I.
Scott, Laura and Connor

Our thousands of miles of road trip and visit with dozens of family members were full of introductions and stories. It is crazy that I am still meeting his family after six years of marriage. But then, he still has many people to meet in my side of the family. Actually I have many I haven't met - in laws and new babies and what not... One day.